
I support grieving individuals as they rebuild connection, trust, and self-understanding after loss
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What to Say (and What Not to Say) When Grief Shows Up in Relationships
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Loss can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself or uncertain in your relationships, even when life looks steady from the outside.
You may be questioning what you want, how you relate to others, or how to move forward in a way that actually feels true.
This work is not about fixing or moving on. It is about making sense of what has shifted and reconnecting with yourself and others in a way that fits who you are now.
Grief Informed
Support that respects the reality of loss and the ways it reshapes your inner world.
Relationship Focused
Because grief doesn’t just change how you feel — it changes how you relate.
Grounded Support
No pressure to “move on.” Just thoughtful guidance as you reconnect with yourself and others.
I’m Hillary, a grief-informed relationship coach who works with people whose lives and relationships have been shaped by loss. My path to this work is both personal and professional, and it continues to shape how I approach supporting others through loss.
Loss can touch many parts of life — romantic relationships, family dynamics, boundaries, and the relationship you have with yourself. My work focuses on helping people navigate these changes with clarity, care, and respect for their own timing. My approach is grounded, relational, and paced.
I don’t believe in fixing grief or pushing people forward before they’re ready. My work is about creating space to understand what has shifted and supporting reconnection in ways that feel honest and sustainable.
My work is shaped by both professional training and personal experience with loss. I know firsthand how grief can shift the way you see yourself, how you relate to others, and the life you thought you were building. That experience is what led me to this work — supporting people who are ready to make sense of what has changed and reconnect with themselves and their relationships in ways that feel honest and sustainable.
If you’re finding yourself reflected in this, it may be a sign that this kind of support could be meaningful for you.

You’ve experienced a loss and life doesn’t feel the same anymore
You’re functioning on the outside but feel disconnected or unsure inside
Your relationships feel different, strained, or harder to navigate since the loss
You’re not looking to be “fixed,” but you don’t want to stay stuck
You want support that honors both grief and growth
This isn’t therapy, and it isn’t about fixing you. It’s a steady, supportive space to explore what has shifted after loss, your inner world, your relationships, and how you want to move forward now. We go at a pace that feels grounded and human, honoring both grief and growth.
Sessions are conversational and reflective, shaped around what you’re carrying and what feels most alive right now. You don’t need the right words. You just need a place where you can arrive as you are.
This work isn’t about rushing forward or leaving your grief behind. It’s about understanding what has changed, strengthening your inner footing, and learning how to relate to yourself and others with more clarity and steadiness.
A steadier relationship with your grief and inner world
More clarity around boundaries, needs, and relationships
Language for what you’re experiencing, even when it’s hard to name
Support that meets you where you are, not where you think you should be